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For better lovemaking, add breath, sound & more!


Lovemaking has so many dimensions! We have many senses, yet the two that most rely upon are touch and sight. You can deeply enhance your experience and focus by consciously experiencing additional elements including:

  • Sound

  • Breath

  • Movement

  • Visualization

How and Why are these elements wonderful for WOMEN, in particular?


Women's BRAINS are our most important sexual organ: for BETTER or for WORSE!


For many of us, it's difficult to shut off our busy, distracted, or judging brains and be present in our senses, pleasure, and in the moment.


What if you became more mindful/present/"in the moment" and in your body in lovemaking?


For instance, adding SOUND to deep BREATHING (try exhaling with an audible Ahhhh) not only oxygenates you, it tells your brain you are SAFE. In sounding, our inner cavewoman recognizes that nothing is chasing us! Feeling safe is essential for arousal and connection. Plus, I'll bet your man will love the feedback!


Adding Movement energizes your body and ensures you get the touch and pressure you desire!


Visualization and imagination are options to gazing into your lover's eyes! You can put yourself in a flow state or blissful trance; which is deeply relaxing or a 'trip.'


Female sexual pleasure is a learned skill and if you struggle in this area, you are not alone or broken, you may simply need a guide; reach out to me!


I was inspired to make this short video for my FB group after a particularly sensual lovemaking session. I thank my MAN, David for being a good sport...as I like to say, a truly loved-up man will do about anything for his woman!


I brought in breath, sound, song, movement, touch and visualization and my man played me like a bow on Stradivarius! What a joy!


We are responsible for our own turn-on, ladies! How could it be otherwise? If we are all stressed out, self-conscious, and not present, our man would have to be a magician to please and delight us!


Fill in the blank:

"I turn myself on when ____, or _____, and ____. Now get more of those things in your life and see how your desire and intimacy grows!


Please watch the video until the end and see how a couple who is truly attuned creates energetic magic--witness the eye-gasm!


I hope you find some inspiration here! I'm an intimacy specialist for women, and I invite your questions or a conversation.


My long sexless marriage followed by life-changing intimacy, along with being a romantic, is my inspiration for helping women create deeply connected, loving relationships with their man. Let's talk about what you are most desiring, and how to get it!


Love,

Debbie


Kindly Reply with your questions or comments, and you are invited to book a free chat with me here; https://www.moreintimacy.net/book-online



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