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Five Promises of Loving Commitment

I Promise to Love You Every Day

Love is a decision, a choice, and not a feeling. Though I can get busy, have my moods, or feel frustrated, you deserve my love and attention each and every day. I choose to love you.


I Promise to Choose You First

You are the most important person in my life and I commit to not taking you or our relationship for granted, each and every day. Though work, home, finances, family, friends, hobbies, and distractions and stressors can make this challenging, I choose you first, always.


I Promise to Take Responsibility

I’m responsible for my own happiness and my own behaviors. My thoughts and feelings are neither wrong nor right, but they are are my own. My ability to be happy and feel loved by you is dependent on my ability to be happy myself, recognize and receive the love you give me, and bring my best self to our relationship.


I Promise to Say “Yes”

You deserve my positive response even when I don’t feel like it. If I’m unable to grant 100% of your desire or request I will respond positively and work with you to find a creative way to meet your underlying need. You can feel safe with me as one will respect and honor your needs, always.


I Promise to be Your Hero, your Lighthouse, your Home.

When Life is challenging (and even when it’s not) you deserve a cheerleader, a safe place, someone who will love and support you. I commit to helping you feel emotionally and physically safe and secure. We are a team and I’ve got your back; I believe in you and I believe in us.


Debbie Marielle Elzea, Intimacy Coach for Women / RCI coach


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