Intimacy counseling and coaching for WOMEN, from the comfort of your home!
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The Cherished Woman program: More intimacy is Guaranteed!
Life is too short not to enjoy your man, your body, and your life! A loving intimate relationship filled with physical and emotional bonding is not only ‘healing,’ it is your greatest source of joy, safety and connection!
One-on-one transformation programs are personalized to your needs, desires and relationship dynamic. We use life coaching, education, body-based methods, and if desired 'sacred sexuality,' to help you rapidly transform into the sensual woman your man adores. You learn skills, confidence, and a new way of viewing your man and your life.
Become happier and less stressed
Most of our happiness is based upon how we view our life, and our lover.
Stress is the top pleasure and relationship killer, making it impossible to relax and enjoy your body, relationship or life. We use proven positive psychology techniques, to reduce stress, increase gratitude, self-care, and resilience and build sensual capacity. When a woman shows up happy and in a good mood, her man is magnetically drawn to her!
Make your man your hero!
Get the best out of your man by understanding that he is not a big, hairy woman who is misbehaving! He views life, love, and sex through a masculine lens that political correctness has shunned. Yet relating to him in a way that brings out his best and makes him want to please you is key to stopping conflict, resentment, or shut-down roommate-mode and building safety, intimacy, and mutual desire.
Only the most desperate of men wants to share his feelings in front of his woman and a marriage counselor....My intimacy counseling works, even if he is not even aware of what you are up to. By putting on our love-colored glasses, and using time-proven skills of beloved women, we inspire him and teach him how we desire being treated. By becoming his 'girlfriend' again, and creating a joyful physical bond, he becomes the loving man who wooed you!
Physical bonding and joy
If you are frustrated or disappointed by your sex life, you are not broken. Female sexuality can be complex, and it is very different from the testosterone-driven male experience. The Cherished Woman program helps you convert 'having sex' (or not having any--the sex starved marriage) into "Making Love." Connecting physical love dissolves many day-to-day grievances and recreates the feelings when you were falling in love.
In coaching you learn your own unique path to pleasure and joy. We blast away blocks that keep you from fully enjoying your body and your physical love with your man. You’ll become more present and confident as you finally break free of negative patterns and distraction. You discover your unique turn-ons and skills, becoming a playful, creative, and empowered lover, who knows what she likes and how to ask for it in your lovemaking.
How will your life and relationship change when you show up in a good mood, relate to your man in a way that makes him want to be your hero, and you rock each other’s world in the bedroom?
When you have the skills, it’s easy to be your man’s cherished woman!
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The Sensuous Woman Program (More Pleasure Guaranteed!)
What do Women Need for Amazing Lovemaking and Connection?
Knowledge, Connection, Worthiness, Time, Embodiment, Sexual Fitness, and Creativity!
If you struggle with pleasure and connection, you are not broken or alone! Female sexual pleasure and intimate connection are an art, a science and learned skills you are never too late to learn. Do you struggle in one or more of these areas? Let's explore how coaching can help you!
Knowledge
Women need sexual education that is pleasure-based. Coaching provides a personalized education so you understand not only the 'facts of life,' but also your own unique turn-ons. You learn to communicate your preferences to your partner in a connected way, as your lover is not a mind reader!
Worthiness and Confidence
As females we receive negative messages about our sexuality, bodies and desires. Shame and guilt are released in an atmosphere of empathy and support. Give yourself ‘permission’ to enjoy your beautiful, sensual self, and celebrate your desires! Proven positive psychology techniques reduce stress, cultivate positivity, and allow you to experience self-compassion and love. Worthiness means you don’t need a perfect body, relationship or performance to enjoy pleasure, because confidence, skill, and your enjoyment are what make you a bliss-filled lover.
Emotional Connection
Transform "having sex" into connected "making love" and intimacy. Create the safety, trust and desire that both partners crave. Explore what you like, and then how to communicate this to your partner, in a connecting and playful way. Demystify male-female differences, the desire and arousal cycle, and the sex-intimacy link, where most women need to feel cherished, safe, relaxed before being in the mood, yet most men only open up emotionally and confidently when sexual needs are met.
Time
A great sex life does not just happen; it needs priority and time. ‘Mutually spontaneous desire’ is a myth, and there is nothing wrong with planning sexy times and prioritizing lovemaking. Coaching keeps you enthusiastic!
As women, we need time for arousal. If a man’s sexual response is like a microwave, ours is a crockpot; our anatomy needs time to be primed. Rethink the quickie and abandon faking; satisfaction is found once you’ve discovered turn-ons, techniques, rituals and touch you like--then apply them in a slow, sensuous way.
Embodiment
A top challenge for women is getting ‘out of our heads’ and into pleasure--. being present in the moment and the senses is key to feeling relaxed and aroused. Learn to banish distracting thoughts, judgment, performance anxiety and furtively chasing orgasms. Enhance sensation and focus through mindful sensation practices, using elements of breath, movement, touch, sound and imagination. Break out of your multitasking mind and connect you with your heart, body and sensuality.
Sexual Fitness
Enjoy freedom from pain or numbness, and increased sensation, arousal and climax.
Creativity
How do you know what you love if you’ve never tried it? What if sex is a place you go rather than just a thing you do? Explore the emotions you want to feel from sex, and scenarios that turn you on. Perhaps you want to feel cherished, powerful, playful, naughty, spiritual....what else? Play with the themes that get you there--passion, romance, energetic, submission and dominance, plus the many forms of non-intercourse play, especially important if your partner has challenges.
You are not stuck with a disappointing intimate life, as sexual pleasure and intimate emotional connection are learned skills! Transform yourself and your relationship with intimacy and relationship coaching, and unlock the joy, connectedness, and self-expression of your deepest intimacy!
I welcome the opportunity to get acquainted via heart-to-heart call, and see how a few months coaching may enhance your intimate life forever!
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I offer one-on-one, virtual, fast-acting, personalized intimacy counseling. Intimacy transformation programs start at $550/month.
