Debbie Marielle Elzea, J.D, NLC, Sex Therapist,

Mother, Sexual Explorer, Blissfully Married Woman 

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How I Got Started in Intimacy Coaching

Why Me? 

I wasn't always a turned-on, sexy and cherished woman; it's been a journey!! I'm happy to share my story with you, the good, the bad and the ugly, and hear yours because you are not alone. We've all grown up in a culture that shames rather than celebrates female sexuality, and have suffered indignities or worse. 

Life may hand us lemons, and that is not our fault...but it is up to us to make lemonade! You are not broken and neither was I; we are strong, loving, and empowered! Regardless of your history, you are capable of creating and enjoying life’s greatest joy: a blissful, connected,  love and sex life. It’s my profession, pleasure and passion to help you shed your sexual frustration, shame or emptiness, and find your bliss.  

I serve women who love men....and you can absolutely start this journey on your own, without waiting for Mr. Right (the mythical being who will fix you, or who knows magically what to do to turn you to jelly!) You are certainly more likely to attract the love of your life when you are a turned-on, sexually confident woman.


Even if you are bored or unfulfilled now, you can create sexual excitement and connection with the man you have! I believe that the best kind of healing comes from loving and being loved, and for most men, sexual connection is the most direct way of building intimacy.  Female sexual pleasure is an art, a science, and a learned skill--and when unleashed, it’s the most powerful source of love and joy in your life and your relationship! 




  • Has lived both the dream and the nightmare...and understands where you’re coming from and what you want to create with your partner

  • Earned a Doctorate ‘cum laude’  from a top university, (and spent decades as a professional business woman and mother)

  • Has had specialty, hands-on training in Somatic sex education and sex coaching and intimacy methodologies, sacred sexuality, and life coaching.

  • Offers real life, practical, science-based sex-positive tools and support with a touch of sacred sexuality. 

  • Leverages scientifically proven embodiment and mind-body techniques that relax your nervous system and rewire your brain for more pleasure. 

  • Creates an individual, action-oriented process, empowering you toward your vision for your ideal love life. 

  • Won't focus on past wounding, but instead see you as a fully capable woman who simply needs to get 'out of your head' and negative patterns.   

  • Is a ‘Rational Romantic’ (my name when I met my husband) who genuinely loves men and helps you appreciate and leverage male-female differences. 

  • My sex and intimacy trainings include: 

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Sex and Intimacy Coach for Women

Loveland, Colorado

Worldwide via the web

Phone: 720-899-7304

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